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In Memory of Our
Dear Friends


Mr. Bojangles


11/03 - 8/23/05
Our Mr. Bojangles was not a HART pet but a very scared stray yellow tabby. He found
us when we moved into an apartment in an area of many strays. He was beaten
up regularly by a bigger and tougher stray cat, just for one bite of food
that I left out for the stray cats. Once I realized that he was a smaller
cat with a nasty wound on his leg, my heart went out to him. I thought I
have to do something and help this poor thing. At the time we already had
one cat and had just taken in a kitten off the streets and my husband and I
were living in a one BD apt. At first Mr. Bojangles would run away if he
even saw me move the blinds to look out at him. Slowly I would open the
door and look out and then he would run away. After a few weeks of this he
realized I was the one putting the food and water out for him. I made my
first Thanksgiving turkey that year and took some out for Mr. Bo, he started
coming to me and it got to the point that he would take the turkey from my
hand. This took about a week of turkey to get to this point, but I was
patient and he knew it. During handing him a piece of turkey, I would swab
Neosporin into his opened wound on his leg. After doing that and adding
amoxicillin to his wet food, his leg started closing up (which had been open
for about a month). At the end of that week he let me pet him and he
started rubbing on my legs. It was now Dec and very cold outside, I knew he
wouldn't come in. I decided to build him a little shelter out on our patio,
I used one of our soft carriers and put a heating pad in it and covered it
with blankets. I plugged it in on a 14 degree cold night and got him to go
in it by putting wet food in there for him. Boy did he love that! He
quickly understood this was for him and curled up in it and I watched this
from inside. I snapped a photo of him there all snuggly and content
probably for the first time in his life. After several nights of doing
this, I was able to get him to come inside with us. He would stay for a few
minutes and then paw frantically at the door to get out. After several
nights of doing this he finally stayed for the night. That's how this
scared stray became our Mr. Bo. He was named before we ever met. I always
said if we ever get a boy cat I want to name him Mr. Bojangles, and it was
very fitting for him.
In
the time that followed Mr. Bo, as his name became, turned into the best cat
in the whole world. Of course he had abuse, abandonment issues from
whomever but, with my patience and love and his love and appreciation he was
the best! He always would talk to my husband and I in the funniest high
pitch cry. You could ask him a question and he would answer you. He was a
beautiful orange tabby with amber colored eyes. Mr. Bo loved to sleep on me
while I studied my school work. He slept in bed with us every night. He
loved to eat and anything that was meat, he especially loved Italian. I
would call him my little Italian boy. Mr. Bojangles was very nurturing not
only of myself and my husband, but of that kitten we had taken in. Mr. Bo
would wash her and play with her and just lay around together. They always
slept together and he would usually reach out and touch her while they
slept. Mr. Bo always defended the kitten named Mouse, no matter what. Mr.
Bo never once bit me, scratched me or even hissed at me despite me having to
give him meds for the endless earmites and cold he had when we took him in.
He even let me cut his nails. He would run to me when I came home and would
be right there to say hi in the morning in the bathroom. He was always in
our front window (of the house we bought for all these cats) to say goodbye
in the mornings and hello in the evenings. He never did anything wrong, he
never even had an accident in the house after who knows how long of being
outside, he learned right away what a litter box was. He was the sweetest
cat I've ever had and I've had many over the years. He was the most
thoughtful and companionate cat there ever was. I never thought I'd be
without him.......
Until
the day that I came home to find him in a dying state under our bed. Mr. Bo
was only about 2-3 yrs old when he suddenly and without warning went in to a
dying state. Within minutes of me coming home, we were in a mad race to the
vets office. Once we arrived there, Mr. Bo died in 5 mins. I was in shock
and couldn't believe he was gone and I didn't know what had happened to
him. I just stood over his lifeless body while tears flowed down my face as
I kept petting him and telling him that I loved him, I couldn't stop asking
the vet tech "how can you love something so much?" The vet suggested doing
an autopsy to see what the cause of death was and I didn't hesitate to do
that. It turns out that he had 2 heartworms in one lung and that was what
caused his sudden death. A blockage in an artery, caused him to slowly
suffocate. This was the worst day of my life. My boy had not only died,
but suffered as well. In the months that have followed his death, he died
in Aug., I have cried a river of tears for my boy. I want him back so badly
and I want to talk with him again. I want him to be in the window when I
look at it, but he's not. My husband has grieved as much as me over this
loss and so has Mouse. Mouse spent the next few weeks after his death
looking in every corner and under everything for him. I know she is
mourning the loss of her best friend.
I
feel so lucky to have known Mr. Bo if only for 1 yr and 9 months. We worked
so hard to win your trust and we should have had many many years together.
We should have grown old together. You touched my heart and soul like no
one else ever has. I miss you everyday Mr. Bo and cry many, many nights
over you being gone. My heart aches for you. I sure hope you’re waiting at
the rainbow bridge for all of us to meet up again. I know it will be a long
wait, but it will be worth it once we're all together again. I love you
with all that I am, my little Italian boy! We ALL miss you so much and want
to be with you again!
Love, Mama,
Daddy, Mouse, Sally and Bubee
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